For most, April 15th is tax day. It’s the day we all hope we’ve already done all the paper work for our taxes, many of us wishing and hoping we’ll get a nice return. For some it’s a sign of adulthood, the first time you have to file.
But for me, April 15th is a day I’ll never forget. April 15th changed my family’s life forever. It’s a day I grew up fast…and it began my adulthood. It changed my view of life…forever.
It was April 15th, 2004. I was a senior at Xavier High School. I was working at KCRG-TV as a production assistant. We had just finished up the 6 pm newscast when my dad called and asked me to come home for my dinner break.
I drove home, it was the longest 15-20 minute drive of my life. When I got home both my parents were sitting on the white couch in our living room. They asked me to sit down and then they utter words I’ll never forget. “Lauren, your mom has breast cancer.”
You see, my mom found a lump during a routine monthly self-exam. She wasn’t going to do anything about it until after my graduation but my dad insisted she get it checked. We had just lost her mother in October 2003, so it was important to be proactive.
I remember feeling like my whole world was crashing that day. I wondered how bad it was, if my mom would live to see my graduate, get married, etc.
Little did I know, the next few years my family would push through the cancer battle. We’d use our Catholic faith to get us through the good and the bad. We would rely and depend on God and the Eucharist every Sunday. It would be our signal of strength and suffereing. My mom would become the rock on the family. She would become our inspiration for living life to the fullest. My parents love for each other would grow deeper than anyone could imagine. And it would lay the groundwork for so much more to come.
9 year later I’ve learned that so much good can come from bad. That day my whole world came crashing down. But it wouldn’t stay that way forever and I would come out of it stronger than ever. April 15th, 2004 would teach my family to BELIEVE.
And I will continue to hope and pray for a cure.